Initial body language is crucial when opening a set. The women will get their first impression of you; and you want that impression to positive – that you’re a playful and confident guy.

When you first run your opener, don’t face the set with your body. In other words, your head may be turned towards the set as you address them, but the rest of your body should not be.

You can tell a lot just by where someone’s feet are pointing. If one came across as report-seeking during the opener, the set would perceive it as a low-value behavior. They would then treat him like a low-value guy and blow him out of the set.
Field-testing has shown us that the percentage of sets that open successfully is drastically affected by this one factor.

There are two common opening scenarios worth mentioning at this time. In the first, you are simply walking by the set “on your way back to your friends.” As you pass the target set, you stop, turn your head towards them, and run your opener. As the opener hooks, you can then turn the rest of your body towards the set and continue.
In the second scenario, you are already in a set, adjacent to the target group. This gives you social proof At the right time, simply lean back towards the target group and, over your shoulder, run an opener. As before, when they start to hook, you can turn your body towards them.

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