Considered by many to the most complete book ever written on seduction, The Venusian Arts Handbook, 3 years after its release, still has people talking.
Mystery first came to people’s attention in the New York Times bestseller, The Game by Neil Strauss (Style). But Mystery had been a prominent figure within the seduction community for many years previous. He had written thousands and thousands of posts on the internet; theories, in-field reports and techniques.
The Venusian Arts Handbook contains 10 years worth of learning from the VH1 PickUp Artist, condensed down into an easily to understand, comprehensive guide on meeting, attracting and seducing women.
The most intriguing aspect of the Venusian Arts Handbook is the concept of the M3 Model. The M3 Model breaks down almost any successful interaction men have had or ever will have with women, and leads you step by step through how to approach and meet women. Perhaps the greatest part of the handbook is the breakdown of the M3 model…a sequential mode of the phases of seduction. By sticking to the M3 model, you know what to do and when to do it. So, there’s very little guessing as to where you are in the seduction. It is in many ways a must have companion for any Pick-Up Artist.
Do I neg her, do I kiss her, should I DHV? These nagging questions that plague many a set become obsolete when you’re able to feel exactly where you are in the interaction, because you have been controlling everything from the beginning!
The Venusian Arts Handbook is a must read, and a must have for any budding PUA. The Venusian Arts Handbook breaks down the art of seduction and delivers it in an intelligent, concise and clear manner. Not only is the book and its teachings easy to understand, they’re also easy to implement.

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Negs have already been discussed. So here’s some examples of using different negs from Mystery’s ebook.

The first sort of neg is the shotgun neg, which is an innocuous statement that would only be uttered by a sincerely disinterested person. It’s an indicator of disinterest. Of course, it’s not that you dislike her; not at all. It’s just that you hadn’t considered her a potential romantic or sexual partner. This IOD diminishes her sexual power and disarms her peer group. The power of the shotgun neg is in its apparent sincerity. She’ll honestly believe that you aren’t trying to impress her. Then she wonders why…

The simplest example of this is pulling out a tissue and blowing your nose. She’ll sincerely believe that you aren’t trying to impress her; (otherwise you would never blow your nose in front of her.) It won’t even occur to her that it’s really just a ruse. Shotgun negs are useful for conveying a not-needy attitude — which is a demonstration of higher value. Thus in one stroke you indicate disinterest, disarm obstacles, and create attraction. “Nice nails, are they real?”

Contrast this with the tease neg. Teasing conveys a cocky, playful attitude. It’s not perceived as inadvertent, but rather as deliberate flirting (but done properly.) Examples of this are “pull my finger,” “You can dress her up, but you can’t take her anywhere,” ‘Don’t make me come down there,” etc.

When you call her a dork, your cocky, playful, fun attitude shows confidence, takes charge, and makes tilings fun. Teasing stimulates her emotions and is useful as a DHV during A2. She may non-respond (IOD) to this tactic if she is trying to freeze you out.

Another form of neg is the sniper neg. An example of this is hinting to her that she has a booger, eye crusties, a sweat}” palm, or that she just spit on you. The idea is to make her honestly believe that she has performed a demonstration of lower value (DLV). This makes her self-conscious and creates a situation where she is the one wondering whether or not you have a good impression of her.

Almost all guys need to improve their skills with women, very few are ‘naturals’. So why not learn from the World’s foremost expert on pick-up and seduction…

“The World’s Greatest Pickup Artist.”
— Saturday Night Magazine

“…has single-handedly invented much of the jargon and tactics that men around the world are using to meet women.”
— The New York Times

“Desmond Morris, the British zoologist and sexuality expert, admits that the Method is a shrewd compression of the phases of love. ‘One of the great mistakes men make is not playing all the stages of courtship,’ he says. ‘It has to be done stage by stage if it’s going to work.”‘
- Elle Magazine

“Mystery’s disciplinal Don Juans often describe the bene£ts of the Mystery Method as augmenting not only their romantic pursuits but also their lives in general. They find they become happier, more confident people. Even Neil Strauss, the New York Times’ music columnist and author of an article on Mystery, has become one of the method’s most devoted followers. ‘It’s revolutionized my life, ‘he says.”
- Utne Magazine

“What is miraculous is that it works. In four hours, I watch Mystery work his way into five separate groups of people in the nightclub, and target a beautiful woman who wraps her limbs around him in less time than it takes to say impressive. It also worked for his former students…”
- Marie Claire Magazine

“He’s like a MAD GENIUS. He sucks women into his reality. It’s
LITERALLY one of the most @%*^ED UP phenomenons I’ve seen in my ENTIRE LIFE. It’s worth it just to SEE IT, let alone what it does to your game. And the cool part is, it’s all LEARNABLE.”
- Tyler D

“I was absolutely amazed. My jaw dropped with surprise by how well The Mystery Method works and allows you to easily maneuver through sets to isolate a hot babe and flow quickly from one set to the next.”
— Papa

“I did something I thought would be IMPOSSIBLE to do. I approached a set of 6 guys and 1 girl. Played it by the book. The guys even bought me drinks. I was then able to isolate and attract the hot babe without any issues. I instant dated her immediately. Then, we went to her place. That was my BEST pick-up ever. I never would have dared approach a set like that. Now I can.”
~ MTL_PUA

“I have never seen such a display of Alpha-ness in my life. Mystery had the whole VIP lounge eating out of his hand. Guys were high-fiving him and girls were coming up kissing him and getting their pictures taken with him. It was amazing.”
- Thundercat

“Saturday night I went clubbing with two other guys, and opened up lots of groups — in fact, I was the leader of our group of three guys, and felt myself generating social proof with every group I opened. I can honestly say that I’m now 500% more comfortable in bars than I was before. Thanks.”
- Trevor L.

“I took your workshop in LA two weeks ago.. .Last night, I ran the tightest set. I followed your game plan EXACTLY. I went in with intriguing opener, picked the target, got the group to love me, negged/ignored her. I was the center of attention of the entire mixed 6 set. Later, I isolated her, quali£ed, demonstrated vulnerability, I always knew all tin’s stuff should work, but tonight I actually SAW it work in its entirety for the first time. It was amazing that everyone in the group acted according to the plan (group, HB, specific obstacles). Thanks Mystery. Tins took my game to the next level. ”
- Ryan C.