Consistently attracting the most desirable – intelligent, attractive and bubbly – women calls for more than luck or just a little charm, it requires an understanding of the complex dynamics of the male-to-female interaction…

To attract the most desirable woman in a social setting requires an understanding of social dynamics. People in groups behave in predictable fashions. Although social gatherings might seem uncoordinated and random, these patterns can be learned, and using them to achieve your goals can become ridiculously easy.

For example, it is well established that women are attracted to men who demonstrate social status and are the leader of other men. The Mystery Method breaks this down (and dozens of other useful patterns) and has tested literally hundreds of ways to demonstrate this, keeping only those which are proven to actually work in real life. Source: http://www.mysterymethod.com/Social-Dynamics.html

Once you understand the underlying process of attraction, you will have access to many ‘unfair’ advantages for attracting beautiful and amazingly interesting women.

Picking-up women has nothing to do with reason, but everything to do with emotion. Focus on attracting women and not reasoning with women.

The venusian artist [pick-up artist] uses emotional stimulation instead of rational discourse. As long as it feels right, your romantic interest will invent her own reasons for what is happening. In other words, when you can give her the right feelings, her rationalization process starts to work in your favor instead of against it.

A woman knows how susceptible she can be when she is in an emotional state. Often her solution to this is to avoid becoming emotionally engaged in an interaction where she doesn’t feel trust or safety, or where the man gaming her doesn’t seem to have enough S and R value. When this happens she will seem non-responsive. Thus, if you can engage a woman on an emotional level, even if it’s a “bad”‘ emotion such as frustration or jealousy, this is much preferable to her remaining non-responsive.

Also, instead of only trying to give her “good” emotions or avoid “bad” emotions, stimulate her with a range of emotions such as curiosity, fascination, fear of loss, connection, indignation, validation and devalidation, humor, embarrassment, happiness, sadness, and so on. The more she is stimulated, the more compelling the experience will be for her. Chapter 5 describes various techniques for this.

Generally, inexperienced women can be seduced more easily and quicker than experienced women. However, experienced women potentially offer greater value in terms of depth and enjoyable, lasting relationships. So don’t rush experienced women into bed, otherwise you may find they won’t succumb to your game… and they’re gone!

In the game of chess, it is possible to win in only four moves. This gambit is called fool’s mate. Winning with speed via fool’s mate does not however make you a chess champion. If anything, it only demonstrates your opponent’s inexperience. An experienced chess player will not even attempt a fast fool’s mate for, if the opponent doesn’t take the bait, he leaves the player in a weak position. Similarly, while it is possible to seduce with speed, it is much less probable on a woman who is socially experienced. In the venusian arts, we refer to ’seduction first’ tactics as fool’s mate for its metaphorical similarity. Instead, both chess champions and venusian artists prefer to play a solid game.

Fool’s mate can work in some situations that may be acceptable to you, such as on drunk girls and those who have a propensity towards having one night stands. Just don’t let it be your only ”winning move.”

If it’s more than one-night stands you want, take your time and don’t try to seduce to quickly.