You ask, “Would you like to kiss me?

If she says yes, kiss her.

If she says, “Maybe,” ”Why?”, “What do you mean” or “I donno” it means she does, but is shy about it. Reply with a gleam in your eye, “Let’s find out…” *kiss*

Remember to caress the back of her neck to show you mean business.

If she says no, you reply, “Well I didn’t say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind.” (Don’t ask “Why not?”This shows low self-esteem.)
If she says, “not yet” or “not here” it means she is open to it but there is a logistical issue. Perhaps her friends are nearby, or she needs more gaming first. Say, “I understand,” and continue gaming her.

Does it seem as if most of these lines involve asking her for permission in order to kiss her? Is that wimpy? They are just considerations. We’ve found that just going for the kiss without indicating your intentions can sometimes lead to embarrassment — more than her saying just saying no.

When she says no, that is much easier to save face from than the situation where you try to kiss her and she moves away.

That having been said, feel free to field-test every possible kiss move that you can think of. Just go right in for the kiss without saying a word. If she turns her head, use your hand to turn it back and kiss her anyway. Test it out a hundred times. Be enthusiastically willing to brainstorm and experiment.

There’s been much talk about mirroring a target girl to create or amplify attraction, but, as Mystery see it, watch if she mirrors you! And if she does, go for a successful close.

Personally, I put a lot of thought into mirroring. I think the real important part is to notice when she does it to you. if she drinks when you drink this is a positive indicator that your CLOSE will be successful. I believe its good to mirror the girl a bit but its not essential. You need indicators from her to support that the close will go nicely. If you don’t get positive indicators, then you eject and don’t close.

Mirroring is ONE positive indicator.

Negs are generally used on attractive and very attractive women! They serve numerous purposes, including slightly lowering a girl’s self-esteem so she’s more vulnerable to pick-up, displaying higher value, lowering a girl’s bitch shield, etc.

An HB is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch?Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it.

BUT - she needs to have a standard when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, “Can I buy you a beer” this WILL annoy her. While the guy thinks he’s doing something nice for her, she gets this ALL the time. She is desensitized to this. You are the 8th guy TODAY!

So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. She HAS to be… she isn’t going to sleep with ALL of them! So she may say NO, or act annoyed, and then the guy thinks she’s a bitch and he walks off pissed and feeling like a failure. And that seems to work. Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to buy her one; she might as well take it. Source: http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/neg_theory.pdf

From personal experience, it takes plenty of practice to use negs effectively – but they are absolutely deadly! When dealing with hot women they are totally essential, because HB’s are use to dealing with supplicating men day-in and day-out! And, if you want to succeed with stunning women, you need to display higher value from the outset to set your-self apart from the AFCs – a neg is an excellent way to do this!

Using false disqualifiers such as these has a disarming effect and also demonstrates value. In fact, they are identical to negs in this regard. These lines demonstrate confidence, fun, a lack of neediness, and a discriminating attitude that says I’m the one controlling the frame, I’m the one who is the prize, and I’m the one who is screening; you to determine whether or not you qualify for my attention.

Examples from Mystery’s ebook…

• “It would never work out between us.”
• “I can already tell, you and I are not going to get along.”
• “You’re fired.”
• “You’re too much of a nice girl for me.”
• “You’re a dancer? OMG I can’t even talk to you,”
• “I’m totally not boyfriend material. Hey, that guy over there looks perfect for you.”
• “We are so broken up. I want my CD’s back.”
• “Your first impression sucked…”

What’s the 3-second rule? It’s simple: don’t wait, act! When opportunity presents itself, in the form a an attractive and/or very interesting woman, don’t squander the opportunity by not approaching because of the fear of rejection. For instance:

If you see the girl from a distance and you’ve assessed the scenario to be a single, then you can wait there for her to notice you and then immediately go over or you can just go right over without waiting. BUT: Do not get eve contact and then fail to approach, and think you can use that eye contact later to approach her. If you didn’t approach her right away (the 3 Second Rule) then you blew it and while it’s possible to still get her, you’re now in damage control mode.

Here’s an opinion on how negging a HB9 may work – apparently it’s all to do with brain chemistry.

“The act of negging [Mystery’s invention and a part of the Mystery Method] an attractive woman can even tamper with her brain chemistry, says Helen Fisher, the author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. “When you fall in love with somebody, what’s going on in the brain is an elevated activity of dopamine. A woman who’s a 9 or a 10 doesn’t have to do any work to get a man, so the system usually isn’t triggered and she doesn’t feel romantic love. But when someone spurns her, that system will kick in and she’ll feel attraction.” - Elle Magazine
From: http://www.mysterymethod.com/

Imagine a hot babe just waiting for men to approach her and start supplicating, but with the MM, that’s one thing you don’t do! In fact, you neg her to make her feel as though she’s nothing special, then with one foot in the door, you begin…