When learning the Game, some AFCs (average frustrated chumps) think seduction is part of pick-up, when it’s not! Seduction is a separate but related to pick-up - it’s not part of the pick-up process. It’s important to realize seduction follows on from PU. Because of this, many guys make major mistakes during the seduction stage.

According to Mystery, don’t seduce to early and don’t seduce to late. Also, plan where you intend to seduce – don’t leave it to luck, because you may end up very disappointed.

Read about the 7-hour Rule : on average it takes about 7 hours from meet to sex with a girl. This is not an exact figure but based on significant field experience.

Seduction to early: Don’t escalate beyond kissing until you have successfully completed the attraction and comfort stages of the M3 model. This will usually take at least 3 hours (there are exceptions, of course, especially with alcohol). Our experience is that most women’s resistance to physical intimacy starts to disappear after she has spent 3 hours with a man (this can be over more than one meeting) and usually disappears completely after 6 hours.

Seduction to late: If you spend more than 10 hours with a woman without beginning physical intimacy, you may have already lost your chances to seduce her. She may have grown so comfortable and used to your presence in a non-physical way that the introduction of intimacy may seem unnatural and weird to her. Ever have a woman tell you “let’s just be friends” when you’ve finally screwed up your courage to make a move? That’s probably what happened. If you wait too long to seduce her, you become her girlfriend, not her lover.

The wrong place for seduction: Yes, you can turn a woman as soon as you meet her. We use seduction all the time to show our students. But it’s self-defeating if you want to build a relationship with her. Say you meet a woman in a nightclub, seduce her and you get hot and heavy in a corner, with hands going where they shouldn’t. Well, you can’t finish the job in a club, can you? (well, you can, but that shouldn’t be your basic strategy). Her friends will be highly unlikely to let her leave with you, and she won’t want to feel “easy” in front of them. So you get her phone number and call her later. Well, when you call her, she’s no longer feeling sexy from being all dressed up with a few drinks in a club dancing with good looking men. She might be changing her cat litter for all the control you have over it. And all she remembers about you is the seduction and sexual behavior you two shared, so she knows that’s what you’re after.

At first, expect to make many silly mistake, like rushing into it or waiting to long and she begins to wonder why you haven’t tried it on with her. With time and experience, you’ll start to identify the key moments when to begin the seduction process.

Don’t worry about early mistakes – we’ve all been there! But learn from them! After quite a few pick-ups, you’ll start to get a feel for when she’s ready to be seduced.

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If you want to increase your chances of seducing a woman, reveal something vulnerable about yourself.

When people share vulnerabilities with each other, it demonstrates (and creates) an emotional connection between them. It’s one of those tilings that, if done too soon, will come off like you are trying too hard to gain rapport with her — a DLV. So don’t be Captain Sensitive when you first meet her. But used at the right time, sharing vulnerabilities is a powerful comfort builder.

Did she tell you something personal about herself? Did she tell you a secret? The Question Game is very useful for this sort of sharing. It’s also possible to structure stones to make the reveal of vulnerability appear to be accidental.

Some examples of field-tested vulnerability stories:

So much unattractive behavior comes from a desire to avoid vulnerability. The secret is to embrace your vulnerability and still be unaffected. It’s ok to be wrong. It’s ok to laugh at yourself sometimes. Think about it: if you’re sensitive about her seeing that you’re wrong, then it obviously matters to you what she thinks. But I thought you were unaffected? So the next time you tell the story of when you fought a lion with your bare hands, remember that it’s more attractive - and interesting — to admit you were scared shitless than it is to play Mister Tough Guy.

With seduction experience, you will learn to pace and strategically plan your game. A common mistake made by inexperienced guys, and noted by Mystery, is that they focus on the ‘end game’ (seduction) instead of attraction and then building comfort and trust.

The most common error that beginners make is to focus on seducing a woman first instead of attracting her. This is like putting the cart before the horse. Often, to beautiful women in particular, seduction first is little more than the equivalent of saying, “You don’t know me but will you sleep with me?” There is a time (and a place) to begin the seduction stage, but it’s not until you first have attraction and comfort - as well as privacy. Instead build rapport via conversational techniques.

Seducers mistakenly begin at the end. Just like any typical guy, they often blatantly disregard a woman’s comfort levels entirely. Even if there is a level of attraction based on the seducer’s appearance alone, this is superseded by her discomfort in having to deal with aggressive sexual advances from someone she doesn’t know nor trust. It is best to not prematurely telegraph strong sexual interest until end-game.

Learn to pace your game, and realize seduction is just one aspect to your overall game.

From Mystery’s extensive experience with women, and feedback from other PUAs, he identified a very interesting fact. It takes, on average, seven hours from the initially meeting a woman to having sex with her.

If you log the minutes you spend with a woman, you’ll realize that it usually takes somewhere between two and ten hours, cumulatively, to go from meeting her to having sex with her. The average is around seven hours.

Mystery discovered the Seven-Hour Rule while searching for patterns relating his success stories. Anecdotal evidence and field reports from many venusian artists generally confirm the accuracy of the rule, excepting instances of fool’s mate of course.

While it can take several days or even weeks to accumulate seven hours of time with a woman, if you seduce her prematurely, you run the high risk of making her uncomfortable enough to have her attraction for you turn off.

We have also discovered that the most emotionally rewarding long term relationships often develop into sexual ones within a week; sometimes within as little as a few days.

What’s also interesting is that if you attempt to rush her into sex, it can turn her off!

The term ‘seduction’ can mean different things to different people. Women, in particular, don’t like the idea that they can be seduced via artificial techniques and tactics. With the Mystery Method, the art seduction is a learnable skill!

Seduction can mean a couple of different things. Broadly speaking, seduction describes the process by which one person leads another to the beginning of a sexual relationship. It also has a technical definition at Mystery Method, where we turn all of these random variables into a science that lets men have more success with women on a regular, repeatable basis.

Here, we define seduction as the third major component of Mystery’s M3 Model: Attract; Build Comfort; and then Seduce. Most of the time, Seduction starts somewhere after the third hour of your interactions with a woman, and only after you have accomplished the first six steps in the M3 model.

When to begin this process is a crucial issue, and where a lot of men make mistakes. Starting too early or too late, or in the wrong physical location (e.g., a nightclub) can ruin your chances with a woman. Seduction is a learnable and repeatable skill that is taught by Mystery. So here’s a quick overview of seduction.

Source: http://www.mysterymethod.com/Seduction.html

Practice – and improvement – does make perfect! So, guys new to the idea that women can be seduced in systematic way, may, at first, make many mistakes. But with experience, steady progress will be made.